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One of the good things about a happy union is getting so comfortable with your husband that you can say blurt anything on hos face. But hey, if you don't hold your tongue, you could possibly end up telling things that might do more harm that good to your relationship. Speaking kindly is a skill that most couples don't know, We bring you a list of three statements that you should never say to your significant other. Watch out:

“You’re just like your father.”

This is a strict no-no! Not only is it nasty and belittling, but can also spark his fear of holding on to the worst traits of his family. If you’re about to spout a criticism like this, stop to consider its impact. Instead of insulting, politely put across your point. That way, you can achieve your goals without hurting him.

“My mother warned me you’d do this!”

No matter how mad you get, never utter these words. Saying it could mean that But that’s never a good you’re not on his side, or on the side of your relationship. Instead of just lashing out, hold your tongue and focus on what triggered your anger. In the end, arriving at a solution together will make you feel way better than hurling hurtful words at him.

“Just leave it — I’ll do it myself!”

This is demeaning in two ways. First, it attacks your husband’s elemental need to be a provider, supporter, and capable person in the house. Second, it’s just heart breaking for anyone to hear that his efforts are sub-par. Be gentle and patient and who knows you might end up teaching him a thing or two on how to get a thing done without attacking his self-respect.

AW: Suchorita Choudhury