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Some men and women find themselves in the placid 'friend zone'. They may have started out as a friend and find it difficult to come out of this mysterious zone. Inspite of being 'in love' the special someone does not take you out of the safe "friend zone". Most men and women find it difficult to change their status once they are friendzoned. Are you one of them? Read on to know how to move out of friend zone.
Change "Nice Guy" image
A study has revealed that most men and women who get friendzoned have the nice guy or sweet girl image. If you are sweet or nice it means you are at their beck and call. They take you for granted and think of you as spineless or someone who don't have a life of hes/her own. So the next time this special person asks for a favour make them wait and see their reaction.
Give time to other friends
Hang out with other friends, with whom you like to spend time. Show this special person that you have a life of your own. Hanging out with this special person all the time will make them take you for granted. Even when you don't have any plans tell him/her that you have a date with another friend. She/He will start questioning about the friend you are supposedly dating. That shows that the significant person is interested and can take steps to the next level. But she/He may not be curious about your friend. Then get the message that this person is clearly not interested. Move on.
Disappear for some time
Make the disappearing act for some time as the person is used to seeing or talking to you every day. He/She will take notice when you are missing in the usual Friday night hangouts or your good night messages. If this person has any feeling for you then he/she will call up and enquire about your disappearance. And if the person appears concerned and displays sings of liking you then talk about your intensions. Alternatively, the person may not notice your disappearance for while. In that case you know that it will not work out. So move on.
Touch barrier
Show some physical signs to this person revealing your intension. But make sure that you just touch and not grope. The message is clear - friends don't touch in a flirty way, or try to sit close in restaurants or sit with shoulders touching at public places. If this person responds know that he/she is interested and the relationship can go to the next level. But if He/She is cold to your touch then the hint is clear. They are interested only in friendship, nothing more.
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