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November 20, 2013 16:02
Tips on Long Distance Relationship

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An affair of the heart is almost beyond our control. We become slaves of our emotions. And if it's a long-distance relationship complications may arise. But with a little effort your relationship will be like a normal relation. Follow these simple relationship tips before getting into a long-distance relationship as it will help you to survive the physical distance.

Communication

Communicate as much as you can with your partner. Tell him/her of your day-to-day experience via phone calls, Skype, texts, IM or any mode of communication available today. You can talk about important things - like events in office, about promotion, salary hike – or about mundane things like what to cook for dinner, which dress to buy (red or green) when you go shopping, etc. When you are constantly in touch with your partner, the physical distance seems to vanish.

Be reasonable to yourself and your partner

We may be committed to our partners, but we are all humans. It's "ok" to be attracted to other people when your partner is not around. In a long-distance-relationship it is natural to get jelous when your partner is having fun with friends. The logical thing to do is to have a life of your own – make friends, strengthen your friendship with old friends, have a night out or go for an excursion during the day. You activities make great fodder for conversation with your partner. It makes you a more interesting person.

It's normal to get attracted to another person

You can be attracted to another person when your partner is away. But don't be impulsive as you may jeopardize your long-distance-relationship or even make a fool of yourself. The person you're attracted to may take you seriously, so if possible make specific ground rules to handle the situation properly. For example, third-party guests should not be better, at least in looks, than your long-distance partner. They can be a visiting student from a foreign country and his/her Visa is about to expire.

Be honest in love

Long-distance relationship is easy when you are in love with your partner. When you are in love your relationship is as easy as breathing air, it branches and grows strong everyday. But be honest to yourself and your partner. If your love has faded or you are no longer in love then it's better to end your relationship, otherwise it can be frustrating for both of you.

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